The protagonists in the video What You Like Or What You Think You Like struggle with similar questions. The video features a fitness TV show in which an instructor and his two participants talk about the essence of people, objects or even the exact meaning of words. They discuss the expected size of a knee brace, what makes a washing machine a washing machine and how, if you have a distinctive hairstyle, you instantly become a meeting point for strangers.
The three people might be working on their own bodies and mind, but there is clearly a gap between how they see themselves and how others perceive them. As they alternate one exercise with another, they share the disappointment and embarrassment they experience when their expectations turn out to be wrong. Something that becomes even more apparent when they also begin to share the fixed ideas they have of one another.